Crafty Things

So, today I was asked to create a display for a fund-raiser. I didn't know to tell her I don't really have any crafty skills. Here it is. My display that is easy to put away and yet flashy. I used glitter. :) There's a good chance they sold their first products today all because of this great set up. Can you tell my undergrad degree is in marketing? :)

Anyways, if any of my Iliff buddies want one of these, or two or three, let me know. It's a fundraiser, and I got the hook-up.

Where do you draw the line?

Today I helped break up a fight between two fourth grade boys. Both come from rough situations. We were at an after school program that is there to provide children a safe and consistant place to hang out. It also provides a meal/snacks.

I think what I'm struggling with is that both boys were right even though they both were wrong. One wanted to take extra snacks home for his family. The other was upset that the he was taking extra snacks.

Yes, the language they were using was atrocious. And yes, getting physical won't solve any problems. But, when push comes to shove (no pun intended) how do you decide who was right?

One was hungry and knew his family was too.

One saw food for the kids program going out the door.

Where would you draw the line? What do you say to those two boys probably only 11 or 12 years old? They both had their snacks. They both were thinking of others not themselves. And, it doesn't justify their behavior, but they both have to be upset and angry about their situations. Nobody likes to be hungry or see their family struggle. Where do you tell these kids to direct their anger instead of each other?

So that's where I find myself...struggling with two boys who were both trying to do the right thing the wrong way...and, I'm sure they felt better releasing some of that emotion. I, however, do not.